Posts tagged ‘Facebook’

March 12, 2011

Put SF’s Best Trainers & Best Gym back on Top; DIAKADI

by Accidental Bear
    • Friendliest most knowledgeable gym I have ever walked into.

      The owners Mike and Billy have built their establishment with heart and soul. I have seen their clients after a few special months with them or on return from one of their out of this world boot camps and the results are to die for. I want Mike and Billy to adopt me in hopes that their health mantra and dedication would rub off on me.
      On a side note you may want to vote because Mike and Billy are HOT! There’s now shame to that, we’re queer after all.
      Take a minute to VOTE. Then you can check it off as good deed for the weekend. Support local, support our gays but most all keep the best on top.
      DIAKADI has dropped to 4th place as the Best Trainers & Best Gym in SF. 

      PLEASE take 10 secs to vote for us in both categories w/ the link below. Anyone can vote no matter where you live! You can vote once in each category through your Facebook account and through each email address you have. It does not seem to work if you try and vote through your phone. Sorry.

      Thanks everyone so far for your time and help with this!

      photo by Greg Endries

      Mar 9, 2011 – Peter S. voted for DIAKADI Body as the BEST Personal Trainer … Vote for the places you LOVE on the SF BayList and earn points, pins and amazing deals along the way. Voting ends Mar 18…


      290 Division Street
      #200 San Francisco CA, 94103
      P 415.863.4922
      F 415.863.4926

March 8, 2011

Ex-Gays My Ass

by Accidental Bear

Some subjects that make my skin crawl: “ex-gays” , on the “down low” and Donald trump. There again is the one word solution, THERAPY people, THERAPY.


Live Chat Tonight About “Ex-Gays”

By Editors


Following Tuesday night’s episode of Our America With Lisa Ling regarding the “ex-gay” movement, there will be a live chat on the subject with Ling and Gayle King.

Airing on OWN: The Oprah Winfrey NetworkOur America With Lisa Ling is a newsmagazine that covers topical subjects — Tuesday night’s episode is called “Pray the Gay Away?” and looks at so-called “conversion therapy.” Following “Pray the Gay Away?” (airing from 10-11 p.m. Eastern), Ling and King, host of OWN’s The Gayle King Show, will take phone calls, Skype questions, tweets, and Facebook messages from the public. Viewers can submit their questions by calling (888) 442-9535,  using the hashtag #OurAmerica on Twitter, or via Facebook at

February 16, 2011

Durable, Daring DILF Khakis! (VIDEO)

by Accidental Bear




If you are not quite sure what DILF means google it of click here. Nowadays because people like Joan Rivers who is out living cockroaches we now have the terms GILF







James Van Der Beek sports the hottest new pants around, DILF Khakis, for the dad you know you’d like to fu- in a pair of flat fronts or pleated. For more of Van Der Week, head over to

December 19, 2010

Gay Epidemic: Loneliness

by Accidental Bear


What’s with all this loneliness anyhow? I mean, I get it, Where ever you go there you are. But it doesn’t mean there you are all by yourself. Almost on a daily basis I hear from one my gay friends that he is lonely, undersexed and lost. Shit, we live in San Francisco , the land of the plenty , the frickin’ gay Mecca! How is this possible? Is lonely a state of mind? I often hear, ” I like to be alone and spend time by myself.” I totally get it, but there’s a point where, I believe you are trying to convince yourself of this as a defense of a much deeper issue.

Loneliness itself is never alone. It is usually coupled with depression or anxiety. Just this past year I lost three friends to suicide. And, welcome to the future , I was informed of all via Facebook. All of these gay men were extremely handsome, professional, coupled with loving partners and what I could tell not socially inept. Were they “alone” ? So, needless to say it worries me when I hear this constant confession of feeling lonely by friends, what ever appearance they may be  giving off.

I went on a road trip last year with a good friend to get out of town and spent some quality time catching up. Admittely , I dont call him much because I figured, seeing that he knew everyone in town, is drop goregous, with job, sweet , smart ( you get it) that was he was always busy. To my surprise, he tells me, ” I never leave the house, haven’t been on a date in over a year. I think I need to go on anti-deprssants.” he confesses. Me: “WHAT!?!?. Why dont you call!?!? Him, ” Well, you’re marrried and busy with school.” Arg!

So the perception you may have of someone, I hate to say it ,but you’re probably 95% wrong! We see the shell , a mask, a face to please the people. But What is happening on a much deeper level. I for one, 95% of the time where my happy go lucky mask. And when Im told by someone how they “see me”, happy, cool, calm, collected and centered ( ohh that one always gets me) , I think to myself, ” Damn, I want to be that guy they see!”

What to do? I have handfuls of amazing friends  that can’t find a date, lonely and bored.  Do I post pics of them here with there personal info? ( HA! You wish). I suggest limiting time spent on the interweb. Don’t delete all your accounts in a rampage ( I have friends in a moment frustration say, ” FUCK! I’m deleting my Manhunt account! And my Grindr , Adam4adam, Facebook, Myspace Daddy Hunt, Bear411, Big Muscle Bear etc) I say limit yourself to one or two and spend minimal time. Join a Gay Hiking group, a Bear Movie group ( FUN! And no one will judge you for eating a large popcorn with milk duds dumped on top). Let your geek shine through if thats what you are and join a gay Science group! No matter of corky you think you are , they guy next to you at coffee shop is probably corkier. Let you green thumb shine, I know plenty of hunky gardener/ landscapers, join a garden group. Put down you iphone, ipad, let down your gaurd, open up the wall you’ve built around yourself and let someone in. I promise you’ll be thankful OR I’ll give you your money back 🙂

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December 12, 2010

Get Lost on Tumblr!

by Accidental Bear

Tumblr , why can’t I quit you! ( why would you want to! )

I have many of times sat down with the good intentions of getting some serious work done and then….. I log onto Tumblr, check my ” i like” , see who’s reblogged me, relog things and then POOF, with out even blinking an eye ( ok, thats a lie), 4 precious hours of my life are gone. Tumblr, thank you for feeding the procrastination monster that lives within me.

Here are a few of my favorite Tumblr blogs ( warning some have adult content) :

(Me of course)