Posts tagged ‘Twitter’

March 8, 2011

Ex-Gays My Ass

by Accidental Bear

Some subjects that make my skin crawl: “ex-gays” , on the “down low” and Donald trump. There again is the one word solution, THERAPY people, THERAPY.


Live Chat Tonight About “Ex-Gays”

By Editors


Following Tuesday night’s episode of Our America With Lisa Ling regarding the “ex-gay” movement, there will be a live chat on the subject with Ling and Gayle King.

Airing on OWN: The Oprah Winfrey NetworkOur America With Lisa Ling is a newsmagazine that covers topical subjects — Tuesday night’s episode is called “Pray the Gay Away?” and looks at so-called “conversion therapy.” Following “Pray the Gay Away?” (airing from 10-11 p.m. Eastern), Ling and King, host of OWN’s The Gayle King Show, will take phone calls, Skype questions, tweets, and Facebook messages from the public. Viewers can submit their questions by calling (888) 442-9535,  using the hashtag #OurAmerica on Twitter, or via Facebook at

March 3, 2011

Barney Frank, You’re Cute and I Trust you. Are we in a Relationship?

by Accidental Bear

I can only take politics in small doses or by Twitter feeds. I am obsessed with Barney Frank and the messages that come out of his mouth breaking through his adorable lisp ( yes, I said adorable. Welcome to Daddy Hunt)

In Barney , I believe!


Frank sees gay equality “in my lifetime”


Representative Barney Frank (D-MA) speaks during the Reuters Future Face of Finance Summit in Washington, March 2, 2011. REUTERS/Hyungwon Kang

(Reuters) – The highest-profile openly gay lawmaker predicted on Wednesday that the United States could soon see an end to legalized discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender.

“We are on the verge of major breakthroughs,” Representative Barney Frank told the Reuters Future Face of Finance Summit.

He pointed to President Barack Obama’s decision last month to stop defending a law that defines marriage as being between a man and a woman, and a vote by Congress that will lead to an end of the ban on gays serving openly in the military.

“I can foresee now an end to legal inequality based on sexual orientation and gender equality some time in my lifetime,” said Frank, who turned 70 three days ago.


February 16, 2011

Durable, Daring DILF Khakis! (VIDEO)

by Accidental Bear




If you are not quite sure what DILF means google it of click here. Nowadays because people like Joan Rivers who is out living cockroaches we now have the terms GILF







James Van Der Beek sports the hottest new pants around, DILF Khakis, for the dad you know you’d like to fu- in a pair of flat fronts or pleated. For more of Van Der Week, head over to

February 13, 2011


by Accidental Bear

Note to self: Relive old experiences via twitter and give running commentary = Best Celebrity on Twitter ( minus not being celebrity part, I can do this). I wonder how many people would read about , Ummmmm this … one time…. I went to the store and bought a gallon of 2% milk then came home and had a bowl of captain crunch ( life of a non celebrity)  added with witty , sharp tongued, sexy commentary.


via Gawker

Howard Stern Just Became the Best Celebrity on Twitter

Adrian Chen — 

Howard Stern just showed the right way to be a celebrity on Twitter: He live-tweeted a 4pm airing of his 1997 movie Private Parts on HBO this afternoon, offering running behind-the-scenes commentary and explaining the real events that served as the basis for some of the scenes. It was cool!

We learned that Jenna Jameson, who had a nude cameo (NSFW), “was so comfortable on set she stayed naked even at the kraft services table.” And that the woman who was brought to orgasm by Stern’s voice was someone who used to really come on his radio show. Stern answered questions in real time, and made the airing of an endlessly replayed movie into something interesting. Judging from the amount of Twitter chatter, it got a bunch of people watching who would have skipped over it otherwise. (“Private Parts” trended worldwide on Twitter while it was on—not bad for a rerun of a 14 year-old movie.)

More celebrities should do stuff like this, instead of issuing misspelled brain farts about their gym session or constantly thanking their fans for reading their previous tweets about how much they love their fans. (As far as we can tell, this is the first time someone has live-tweeted their own movie?) Because we will never care about what celebrities think as much as what they’ve made. And even in cases where we don’t care about what they’ve made, this can’t hurt. We actually might watch Joe Dirt if it was accompanied by David Spade trying to justify it in real-time on his Twitter account.

this gay disc jockey bit is one hundred percent accurate. I got into so much trouble with the executives. they never got so many complaints.

Howard Stern

February 7, 2011

Dedication to My Readers:You make loving fun

by Accidental Bear

Ahhh, you know it feels good! Readership from around the globe has skyrocketed. Thanks for all your support and comments. Keep a watchful eye on Accidental Bear Blog in 2011, mucho mas( for you illiterates, much more) to come. XOXO

January 26, 2011

Sir Elton Covered for YOUR Protection

by Accidental Bear

I told myself I wasn’t going to use works like fuck, cunt and so on on my blog. But some time I cannot resist. The owners of this store putting these “family shield” covers over Elton and hubby while they hold their brand new off the shelf baby are ASSHOLES. And while I’m at it Fuck You Arkansas ! That really sums it up. No debate needed. I mean, Elton wasn’t even wearing anything offensively gay or hideous ( this time) .

Can Elton John‘s Baby Hurt You?

By Editors

Us Weekly x390 (pick-up) I

Update: The shields have been taken down at the store, according to the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, which spoke to Harps corporate executive assistant Marty Yarborough. She told GLAAD that the shields were placed over the covers because some of the customers complained. Brittany, a worker at the store, confirmed that the shields were taken down this morning.

A Harps grocery store in Arkansas censored an Us Weekly cover featuring new dads Elton John and David Furnish with their son, Zachary.

A Harps shopper named Jennifer posted a photo of the move to censor the cover at the Mountain Home, Ark., store on Twitter. It shows the issue of Us Weekly with a “family shield” to “protect young Harps shoppers” from seeing the image on the cover, typically reserved for sexual or violent images on magazines like Maxim or Playboy.

The manager at the store said there was no comment, and a call to Harps’ headquarters in Springfield, Ark., has not been returned.

Harps, founded in 1930, has 64 stores in Arkansas, Oklahoma, and Missouri.

VIA By Editors

January 26, 2011

Tweet of Day

by Accidental Bear
Gawker Gawker 

American Apparel: It’s Not Porn If It’s a Drawing
January 20, 2011

Color Me Intrigued: Try State Magazine #3

by Accidental Bear

“Try State Magazine, an independent biannual publication designed for an alternative audience is a curated showcase of some of the best up & coming artists & photographers working at the moment. The new issue features the work of Gregory Moon, Christopher Stribley, Ves Pitts, Gio Black Peter, Sylvain Norget, Walt Cessna, Diego Garcon, Jessica Yatrofsky, Bruce LaBruce and many more. It’s simple design allows the work to shine and it has literally helped launch the careers of those lucky enough to be included in the first two issues. With it’s finger firmly on the pulse of alterna-queer culture, Try State correctly provides a fierce forum for those bored with current state of printed media.”


January 17, 2011


by Accidental Bear


(This will call on all the pervs and keep the kids out)

HOMOPUNK, where were you when I was in high school. In the late 80’s I walked the street head hung long, bleached blonde bangs colored with black sharpie, shredded jeans, combat boots and punk rock stickered leather coat. HOMOPUNK would have lifted my head up ( most likely to say Fuck YOU! Ahhh, sweet youth)


January 17, 2011

Ah-ah, Not so fast. That’s Not Trash

by Accidental Bear

Ok, lets see, one avocado pit, some potato peels, left over corn bread ……


Texan builds artful, sustainable homes out of trash


Texas home builder Dan Phillips transforms trash into artful treasures, creating intricate floor mosaics with wood scraps, kitchen counters from ivory-colored bones and roofs out of license plates.

  • The fantastical houses which spring from his imagination are made almost entirely with materials which would otherwise have ended up in a garbage dump.
“People have been doing this for hundreds of thousands of years: using whatever is available to build shelter,” Phillips said. “If you ponder what could be used, then building materials are everywhere.”
Phillips founded Phoenix Commotion 12 years ago with the aim of creating a new model for sustainable, affordable housing.
The 13 homes he has built so far would fit better in an art museum than the residential streets of Huntsville, a conservative town of about 35,000 people best known for housing Texas’s death row. ” MORE
January 17, 2011

Transsexual Mistress: Kelly Osbourne’s Fiance Liked My Penis

by Accidental Bear

When will kelly tell us about her penis?

Fringe Society Becomes The Norm

A transsexual woman explains Kelly Osbourne‘s Twitter freak-out: Luke was in love with a woman with a penis. Rob Pattinson calls his own naked image “very pretty.” Diddy hits the sauce. Monday gossip is full of surprises.

  • “REPORT: Kelly Osbourne‘s Ex Cheated On Her With Transsexual.” Does this explain Kelly’s hastily-deleted tweet accusing former fiance Luke Worrall of “fucking hundreds of girls as well as men behind my back”? Apparently a 21-year-old lass named Elle Schneider—who, a couple surgeries and intensive hormone treatments ago was a boy named Reynaldo Gonzalez—has come forward as one of Luke’s mistresses, and is making mad cash on the British tabloid circuit. Elle currently has breasts and a penis: “I was open with Luke that I was born a boy. He didn’t mind. In fact it turned him more. […] It was only when I took my clothes off he saw I had a penis. He wasn’t fazed by it—he was very complimentary.” Afterwards, Elle says she and Luke swapped sexy messages and Luke “said he loved me and wanted us to live together.” Then Kelly and Elle got in touch (on Christmas day?) and it turned into a John Tucker Must Die situation, with both women concluding that Luke was a dog, and Kelly going on a Twitter rampage. A very thrilling, completely unverified story. Enjoy your 15 minutes, Elle. [RadarMirror,image via Pacific Coast News]
December 19, 2010

Gay Epidemic: Loneliness

by Accidental Bear


What’s with all this loneliness anyhow? I mean, I get it, Where ever you go there you are. But it doesn’t mean there you are all by yourself. Almost on a daily basis I hear from one my gay friends that he is lonely, undersexed and lost. Shit, we live in San Francisco , the land of the plenty , the frickin’ gay Mecca! How is this possible? Is lonely a state of mind? I often hear, ” I like to be alone and spend time by myself.” I totally get it, but there’s a point where, I believe you are trying to convince yourself of this as a defense of a much deeper issue.

Loneliness itself is never alone. It is usually coupled with depression or anxiety. Just this past year I lost three friends to suicide. And, welcome to the future , I was informed of all via Facebook. All of these gay men were extremely handsome, professional, coupled with loving partners and what I could tell not socially inept. Were they “alone” ? So, needless to say it worries me when I hear this constant confession of feeling lonely by friends, what ever appearance they may be  giving off.

I went on a road trip last year with a good friend to get out of town and spent some quality time catching up. Admittely , I dont call him much because I figured, seeing that he knew everyone in town, is drop goregous, with job, sweet , smart ( you get it) that was he was always busy. To my surprise, he tells me, ” I never leave the house, haven’t been on a date in over a year. I think I need to go on anti-deprssants.” he confesses. Me: “WHAT!?!?. Why dont you call!?!? Him, ” Well, you’re marrried and busy with school.” Arg!

So the perception you may have of someone, I hate to say it ,but you’re probably 95% wrong! We see the shell , a mask, a face to please the people. But What is happening on a much deeper level. I for one, 95% of the time where my happy go lucky mask. And when Im told by someone how they “see me”, happy, cool, calm, collected and centered ( ohh that one always gets me) , I think to myself, ” Damn, I want to be that guy they see!”

What to do? I have handfuls of amazing friends  that can’t find a date, lonely and bored.  Do I post pics of them here with there personal info? ( HA! You wish). I suggest limiting time spent on the interweb. Don’t delete all your accounts in a rampage ( I have friends in a moment frustration say, ” FUCK! I’m deleting my Manhunt account! And my Grindr , Adam4adam, Facebook, Myspace Daddy Hunt, Bear411, Big Muscle Bear etc) I say limit yourself to one or two and spend minimal time. Join a Gay Hiking group, a Bear Movie group ( FUN! And no one will judge you for eating a large popcorn with milk duds dumped on top). Let your geek shine through if thats what you are and join a gay Science group! No matter of corky you think you are , they guy next to you at coffee shop is probably corkier. Let you green thumb shine, I know plenty of hunky gardener/ landscapers, join a garden group. Put down you iphone, ipad, let down your gaurd, open up the wall you’ve built around yourself and let someone in. I promise you’ll be thankful OR I’ll give you your money back 🙂

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December 12, 2010

Get Lost on Tumblr!

by Accidental Bear

Tumblr , why can’t I quit you! ( why would you want to! )

I have many of times sat down with the good intentions of getting some serious work done and then….. I log onto Tumblr, check my ” i like” , see who’s reblogged me, relog things and then POOF, with out even blinking an eye ( ok, thats a lie), 4 precious hours of my life are gone. Tumblr, thank you for feeding the procrastination monster that lives within me.

Here are a few of my favorite Tumblr blogs ( warning some have adult content) :

(Me of course)