Lets Talk About Locker room Etiquette ( Behind the Scenes of Gay)

I have had discussions on this topic and usually find myself on the other side as everyone else. Lets have a grown up talk about gay mens behavior in the locker room. Putting internal homophobia, body issues and the excuse that men are just animals and need sex aside. What are your observations in the locker room ( No, this isn’t going to be a discussion about size queens) Often I have found myself  irriatated by the complete lack of discretion by my gay brothers. Most people are there to work out, shower and get on with their business. On the other hand some guys stand in mirror and shave for an hour , while their naked peters press against the sink ( not sanitary, no debate), other walk around with bright red peters they have obviously lathered up far to long. Just because Im gay ,  I have to be ok that the guy in shower across from me is making tweaker gestures at me with his face  while he jacks off 4 feet from me? As an “adult” gay male, I know sex happens in ALL SORTS of places( I’ve tried most) including gym steam room amongst a long list. I’ve been told, ” This is what happens at a gay gym”. This furiates me because , its a gym with regular gym fees, weight machines and treadmils, NOT gay machines, gay fees ( unless they are sneaking them in, hmmm), gay showers etc.

I believe in the utimate disretion. So imagine, after an intense , focussed work , a gym member  taking a quick rinse to get back to work, is stalked and RUDELY gawked ( not just a friendly, Hey nice ass gesture with his eyes) at by a  troll of sorts ( of any age or race)  jacking off using  free soap provided by gym, and then after not taking the hint of his  shower mate  for being NOT  interested, the shower cruiser doesn’t disarm and keeps masturbating. Who would be at fault if the stroker got punched in the face?

Many of the places I have lived across the US I encountered  bizarre incidences in steam rooms where a guy has taking the liberty to make awkward advances without thought or concern at who is around. This is not being prude and I am all about sexual liberty and freedom, but at some point, common sense, compassion of those around you, common decency all need to be considered.

Now, how do you feel gays?

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Dolce & Gabbana MENs FASHION SHOW WINTER 2012 (video)

What’s become of me…. this video tickles my back side with a peacock feather.

D&G MEN FASHION SHOW WINTER 2012

WELCOME TO THE FUTURE

On My Watch: HOMOPUNK

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(This will call on all the pervs and keep the kids out)

HOMOPUNK, where were you when I was in high school. In the late 80’s I walked the street head hung long, bleached blonde bangs colored with black sharpie, shredded jeans, combat boots and punk rock stickered leather coat. HOMOPUNK would have lifted my head up ( most likely to say Fuck YOU! Ahhh, sweet youth)

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Ah-ah, Not so fast. That’s Not Trash

Ok, lets see, one avocado pit, some potato peels, left over corn bread ……

ABRA CADABRA

Texan builds artful, sustainable homes out of trash

by http://www.mnn.com/

Texas home builder Dan Phillips transforms trash into artful treasures, creating intricate floor mosaics with wood scraps, kitchen counters from ivory-colored bones and roofs out of license plates.

• The fantastical houses which spring from his imagination are made almost entirely with materials which would otherwise have ended up in a garbage dump.
  

“People have been doing this for hundreds of thousands of years: using whatever is available to build shelter,” Phillips said. “If you ponder what could be used, then building materials are everywhere.”

Phillips founded Phoenix Commotion 12 years ago with the aim of creating a new model for sustainable, affordable housing.

The 13 homes he has built so far would fit better in an art museum than the residential streets of Huntsville, a conservative town of about 35,000 people best known for housing Texas’s death row. ” MORE

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‘Dream’ Speech Writer Jones Reflects On King Jr.

The most enduring images and sounds of Martin Luther King Jr.‘s life come from his “I Have A Dream” speech, delivered at the Lincoln Memorial on Aug. 28, 1963.

Clarence Jones helped draft the speech that day, and he was standing a few feet away when King spoke.

He was a young attorney and part of King’s inner circle when the March on Washington was planned. He tells his story in his new book Behind the Dream: The Making of the Speech that Transformed a Nation.

But it almost wasn’t to be.

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• The Story Behind the ‘I Have a Dream’ Speech (theroot.com)

Today I pull from my Tarot Card Deck; Gay Fashion Card

Sometimes I sparkle and sometime I am plain ole’ matte finish photo paper.

Roberto Cavalli makes me want to SPARKLE

Roberto Cavalli Fall 2011 | Milan Fashion Week

“No stranger to exorbitant details, Roberto Cavalli finds the soul of his latest collection in a rich new outing that boasts a hint of the glamorous 70′s. Finding room for the three-piece suit, while accessorizing with neckties and tribal accents, Cavalli brings in his over the top finesse with dynamic outerwear. From shearling and fur to the occasional knit, fall’s collection takes from the past and charges into the immediate future with a charming nostalgia and style that easily conforms to the signature allure of the Cavalli man.” written by carl on saturday, january 15th, 2011 from http://thefashionisto.com/roberto-cavalli-fall-2011-milan-fashion-week/

Related Articles

• 10 Things We Expect From Roberto Cavalli’s Nightclubs (thegloss.com)

Move Over Hermes, Make Room for BEARMES

Bearmes – Must have items for the chic bear & cub Choosy bears choose Bearmes.

BEARMES SWEAT SHIRT SIGNATURE

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Must-have items or the chic bear & cub.

 

Transsexual Mistress: Kelly Osbourne’s Fiance Liked My Penis

When will kelly tell us about her penis?

Fringe Society Becomes The Norm

A transsexual woman explains Kelly Osbourne‘s Twitter freak-out: Luke was in love with a woman with a penis. Rob Pattinson calls his own naked image “very pretty.” Diddy hits the sauce. Monday gossip is full of surprises.

• “REPORT: Kelly Osbourne‘s Ex Cheated On Her With Transsexual.” Does this explain Kelly’s hastily-deleted tweet accusing former fiance Luke Worrall of “fucking hundreds of girls as well as men behind my back”? Apparently a 21-year-old lass named Elle Schneider—who, a couple surgeries and intensive hormone treatments ago was a boy named Reynaldo Gonzalez—has come forward as one of Luke’s mistresses, and is making mad cash on the British tabloid circuit. Elle currently has breasts and a penis: “I was open with Luke that I was born a boy. He didn’t mind. In fact it turned him more. […] It was only when I took my clothes off he saw I had a penis. He wasn’t fazed by it—he was very complimentary.” Afterwards, Elle says she and Luke swapped sexy messages and Luke “said he loved me and wanted us to live together.” Then Kelly and Elle got in touch (on Christmas day?) and it turned into a John Tucker Must Die situation, with both women concluding that Luke was a dog, and Kelly going on a Twitter rampage. A very thrilling, completely unverified story. Enjoy your 15 minutes, Elle. [Radar, Mirror,image via Pacific Coast News]
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Stink Eyes On: Psychic Sylvia Browne , True Evil

I first layed eyes on “Psychic” Sylvia Browne on the Montel William show many years. I am always intrigued by these  self proclaimed psychics. What else to call them since there is no logical test to give them to fin out their “true abilities”. So, I will settle on self- proclaimed. As I watched words come out her mouth on the Montel show my skin began to burn from the unbelievable BS she was spewing from her wrinkly old lips. The theme of show was missing children and Sylvia was brought in to meet families and tell them what she saw in her magical crystal ball that she keeps in her head. This is when I saw PURE EVIL. She out of her ass tells this mourning , crying family that their missing 9 yr old boy is dead and floating in the bottom of a well. At first I thought OMG, she’s going to lead them all to the body, CASE CLOSED. But no, thats all she “makes up” and has no other fictional information to tell them. If she’s going to make shit up, make upsomthing soothing or spiritualy helpful for these suffereing families of missing children. Say something like, ” Billy, is no longer with us here on earth, but at peace and not in any pain.. blah blah” But don’t tell them their son is dead in a well!!

She should be held accountable for the EXTRA trauma she brings to these faimilies in need of comforts and she should be tried. If it were up to me I say she should be humiliated in public on a daily basis for the rest of her life and 24 hrs a day have a speaker near her spewing all sorts of hurtful lies. Um ,thats all.

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